Dear Introvert Me,

Not everyone is against you.

Fatima Martinez
Mini Mailer

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Photo by Ashley Anthony on Unsplash

I know that going out again hasn’t been easy. You live for excuses not to go out and now the global excuse has come to an end.

While you have a certainty that spending time by yourself is a better way to be productive, you must remember that seeing your friends is also fun and good for you. Many times, when you decide to go against your gut, you’ve felt better by spending a night with other people rather than alone; in fact, most of those times, you have decided to stay longer than what you’ve planned.

It wasn’t a good year, you did not have those accomplishments that others did, you continued doing what was more comfortable and I would like to give you a round of applause because you gave me comfort going through that anxiety phase I had at the beginning of this year, I will be thankful for keeping me grounded and coming back to myself.

It’s time to face the world again, have a wonderful time with our friends and understand that the people we have chosen to be around us are people who care about us and only want us to be better and help us in any way they can. Do not take their comments or advice as an attack. Lower your guard and be the friend they know.

Our friend Brenda it’s coming to the city next week just to have a good time. She’s great. Trust in our selection of friends. We picked the good ones.

Start saying yes to plans.

You love seeing your nieces and nephews.

Have fun,

Fa.

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Fatima Martinez
Mini Mailer

Mexican fashion designer, sustainability lover, learner; I enjoy to write about fashion and dreams, and I love my morning coffee and my skin care routine.